tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32316055008754901122024-03-13T03:03:59.033-07:00Scribbles from the Middle"Froth at the top, dregs at bottom, but the middle excellent" VoltaireAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.comBlogger107125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-48775038846419906212013-06-26T04:45:00.002-07:002013-06-26T04:45:27.269-07:00Are you cheating on twitter with FAcebook?One of my first tweets this morning was:<br />
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“People who hash tag on FB make me want to poke them in the eye.”<br />
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You know, just a usual Wednesday morning tweet lacking in opinion or offence.<br />
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But, how stupid of me to tweet something so out of date! (By about 12 hours I think)<br />
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Newsflash people, you can use the hash tag on Facebook. I know… life as we know it is over.<br />
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No longer can we look down on our Facebook “friends” ( or “acquaintances” if you have been brave enough to categorise them) with disdain as they update their status with “Gonna get ma bikini on #sun #sexi #Icecreme #cantspell”<br />
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No longer can we shout at the screen “Why are you using the hash tag on Facebook you cretin?” .<br />
<br />No longer can we laugh smugly when they leave a space between words and mutter “have they ever even been on twitter?”<br />
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No, that is over, as once more Facebook has put its dirty fingers in everyone else’s pie. Just look what happened to Instagram when it got hold of that? I said INST- A-GRAM – with the pictures, and the filters? Oh forget it.<br />
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But this post isn’t just about Facebook bashing, because that would make me look a little stupid. And I don’t need to write a blog to look stupid. I can just leave the house with my skirt on inside out (and I did that this morning).<br />
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If Facebook was that bad I would have come off it years ago and I haven’t. The main reason being it is so bloody convenient. As a source of information for things like local events, what your child needs to take on a school trip and whether or not you’ve missed a friend’s birthday, FB is worth its weight in gold. And, I suppose, wedding season is a pretty special time too. So yeah I’m on Facebook, and there are times I quite like it.<br />
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But I like Twitter too, well I sort of love it. I like its anonymity. its freshness and how everything is so temporary. Yes it has its flaws, they mainly come in a troll or celebrity shape. but as a whole it works. And personally, I think its success lies in the simplicity. Over complicating Twitter would be its downfall. Besides, the hash tag is complicated enough – right Facebookers?<br />
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I like the choice in social networks, I like there is variety (that’s why Pinterest is there right – for variety? Otherwise I am stumped on its purpose) and I like my social network sites to be different. I like using them for different things. Like chocolate. If I fancy something moreish and light I’ll grab a packet of Maltesers if I want something filling and chewy I’ll get a snickers. but don’t try and merge the two, that would just be kind of… clunky?<br />
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This is why think I Facebook should stick to what its good at. Connecting local people and people who haven’t spoke to for years and years. That’s its niche.<br />
Let Twitter keep you up to date with the here and now, the moment, the trends, the news and the opinions.<br />
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And let’s not force everything to be the same. Different is good. We like different.<br />
And the whole copying thing? Well its all a bit <em>try-hard</em> isn’t it? Like the kid at school that gets a ”Beiber” hair cut 2 months too late.<br />
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I know, social networks are not timeless, just look what happened to MySpace, so they need to reinvent themselves. Imagine if we still had to start every FB update with the word “is”? <br />
It’s ok, breathe, they are not bringing it back, that level of social network restraint is long gone. <br />
But just imagine if we were still stuck with that “is”? Or worse, Imagine if twitter nicked the “is”?<br />
<em>Frances is fucked off that Facebook has nicked twitter’s hash tag</em><br />
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So of course, there comes a time when all social networks need to reinvent. And I welcome it – when it’s fresh and clever and it makes my life (well internet life) easier. But what I can’t stand is when things get clunky or the big brains are being lazy, and I just feel Facebook adopting the hash tag is both.<br />
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I haven’t used the hash tag on Facebook yet, but I rarely update on there, so doubt I will. But the thought of it does feel wrong, kind of like swearing on Facebook, it’s only a certain sort who can get away with it. The rest of us just appear crude or inappropriate.<br />
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Having said that, I don’t think I would feel like I am cheating on Twitter, but it certainly does feel like Facebook is.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-70953036053076259412013-04-22T03:12:00.001-07:002013-04-22T08:00:21.159-07:00City Love: Manchester<br />
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I'm a coastal girl, a small town coastal girl. This is my comfort zone. It's where I grew up. Where I'm raising my kids. Where I am happy.<br />
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But I do love city life...</div>
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I love being a city tourist.</div>
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On the weekend I visited Manchester, for work related stuff. It was sunny, it was gritty, it was buzzing... I loved it.</div>
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The distance was 700m, I'd memorised the street map from Google I had some map thingy on my phone. I was organised. And guess what? I did it! I got there.</div>
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But that wasn't the best bit. The best bit was walking through Manchester's Northern Quarter and falling a little bit in love with this city.<br />
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I don't claim to know much about all our cities, but I do know that every city I visit is full of such a mixture of life I could sit and watch it slowly tiptoe into the streets and then burst open all day long.</div>
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We all know London is pretty special as a city right? But there is something about the soul in northern cities that blows London out of the water.<br />
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Manchester isn't a pretty city; it's gritty, dirty and busy with promise. Just like the Manchester accent, it hits you somewhere else, that you weren't expecting.<br />
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I found myself on Thomas Street on a sunny afternoon. I'd passed vintage clothes shops and second hand book shops with speakers blaring opera music onto the street. I'd narrowly avoided being trampled by a tram and just missed out on being the landing mat of a "jump artist". Eventually I was strolling among the Northern Quarter, watching cafes and delis spill onto the street and catching sight of the city's sub cultures celebrating their subtlety in record shops and specialist art shops.<br />
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The city was exposed inthe sunshine outside bars and bistros.Wooden tables were overflowing with chalk boards, funky teapots and coloured glasses. Different accents, unusual laughter and foreign language filled the air above N4. The young, old, trendy, reserved and outrageous flowed from indoors to outdoors, off the kerbs and into the gutters. Pockets of culture exploded into the open and I very much wished I was part of it.<br />
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I wish I had taken out my* tab2 and captured some of the buzz in snapshot. But I was too busy enjoying it, absorbing it, drinking it and breathing it. I don't get to cities much, I have to get my fix when I can.<br />
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<em>*Not mine, my 5yo's sons.</em></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-40548135507329092182013-04-10T07:21:00.001-07:002013-04-10T07:28:14.969-07:00Caitlin Moran and a registry office Up North<br />
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I was holding out for a bigger wedding, you know, I thought we'd probably tie the knot just after we won the Euro Millions. But as the years went by, I started to get a little impatient.</div>
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It was only when my sister quoted me a bit of <a data-mce-href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/How-To-Woman-Caitlin-Moran/dp/0091940745/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1365595793&sr=8-1&keywords=caitlin+moran" href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/How-To-Woman-Caitlin-Moran/dp/0091940745/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1365595793&sr=8-1&keywords=caitlin+moran"><em>Caitlin Moran</em></a> that the penny finally dropped...</div>
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<strong><em>"</em></strong><em>Six years and a £19.99 engagement ring later, and it’s our wedding day. It was – initially – going to be in a register office in London, followed by a reception in a pub.</em></div>
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<em>In boring, empty mid-October. Everyone could have got the bus home. It would have cost less than 200 quid. We could have knocked it all off in five hours flat. Oh, I wish we’d had that wedding</em><strong><em>." </em></strong><em></em></div>
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When I read this, I thought, "yeah, why not just do that?" It's so simple, so easy, so right, and in the day and age of the <em>Twenty Grand Wedding</em>, quite original!<br />
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Caitlin Moran didn't get married like this. In the end she opted for a monastery, a red velvet dress and ivy in her hair. She herself insists "It was a bad wedding!"</div>
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And no wonder she looks back nostalgically on their original wedding plan. It would have been really cool wouldn't it? Whatever decade.</div>
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For a start registry offices in London are usually found in beautiful listed buildings, not like the purpose built council breeze blocks found on the edge of leisure centres or disused libraries that we have up here.</div>
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And then there's the pub. Well it's London so what kind of pub do you want? You can have your pick... you want one which only serves crisps that are hand made, freshly rock-salted and arrive in a brown paper bag, there you go. You want one with live folk music and real ale served in a dimpled pint mug, then have that. You want tatty velvet sofas and vintage etched mirrors, then they have that too and more! And in any of those quirky, cosy, rustic taverns a bride wearing a subtle wedding dress and a groom in an open shirt and braces wouldn't look out of place.<br />
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Where as here, among the barely dressed spotty teenagers and the barely alive old boozers, you would get less attention walking into the local pub with a sandwich board saying "twat" than you would in a wedding dress.<br />
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But I still would have done it. Bought a round of pints and peanuts for the guests and had our first dance to the jukebox (unfortunately it only plays James Arthur nowadays) and demanded a lock in at the end.<br />
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But it would have been a bit inappropriate to take the kids. And I really haven't got the stamina to keep drinking past 11pm these days, so we opted for registry office and family meal - you know "somewhere nice".<br />
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And I don't regret the decision, in fact I am really looking forward to it. i think it's going to be pretty good and actually rather cool, in a non-London kind of way.<br />
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Plus, if I had one of those big weddings, I know, like Caitlin Moran says, I would have let myself down and probably the whole of humanity down too, you know just by being a bit of a wedding twat...</div>
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<em>"Weddings are our fault, ladies. Every aspect of their pantechnicon of awfulness happened on our watch. And you know what? Not only have we let humanity down, but we’ve let ourselves down too.</em></div>
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<em>Weddings do women no good at all. They’re a viper’s pit of waste and despair. And nearly every aspect of them reverberates badly against the very people who love them the most: us. Our love for a wedding is a bad love. It does us no good. It will end badly, leaving us feeling cheated, and alone.</em></div>
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<em>Whenever I think about weddings, I want to run into the church - like Dustin Hoffman in the Graduate - and shout ‘STOP! STOP THE WEDDINGS!</em>"<strong><em></em></strong></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-39577456144183729102013-03-23T02:57:00.001-07:002013-03-23T03:01:32.779-07:00Secret Tools!Yesterday, my 5yo told me about some new tools his teacher has the given the class.<br />
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"They're invisible" he said looking at me with wide eyes. "And..." <dramatic pause> "... they are always in your pocket, so you can pull them out when ever you need them!" <br />
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"Ok" I said, then asked curiously "So what are these tools?"<br />
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"One is called "stick-ability" and you use that one if you are finding something hard and you just want to give up.You pull it out and stick-ability helps you keep on going"<br />
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"That's a good one" I said."What else you got?" Hoping there was an anti-wrinkle cream that actually worked in there<br />
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"There's "distraction action" I use this one a lot. If something's distracting me, like a noise or a person, then I pull it out and it helps me ignore them."<br />
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"Cool! I need that sometimes" I said thinking about time spent on twitter opposed to time spent writing " Can I borrow it?"<br />
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"No!" He replied flatly "You need to get your own tools. These are mine."<br />
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I was tempted to reply... Well buster, I'm one step ahead of you. I've been carrying around my own pack of invisible tools since the day you were born.<br />
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But I didn't, instead I decided I would write a blog post about them. Hoping you would appreciate hearing about them...<br />
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Some of my invisible tools that get me through the week...<br />
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False Smile</h3>
Ok. We all have this one. Remember the false laugh we learnt as pre-schoolers to appease adults who don't know how to communicate with children? You don't know what i am talking about? Introduce you child to Uncle Knobhead and see what they do... A false laugh right? <br />
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Well, the false smile is how that little, wary false laugh has evolved. And when you become a parent the false smile is perfected. It is used for nearly every other parent (apart from the select few which you LOVE obvs) you see on the school run, in the supermarket and wherever else they may pop up, as they are everywhere right? It is used for every child that isn't your own that talks to you, asks you a questions or requires your attention in some way. It used for everyone over the age of 60 who comments on your child's size, attire or behaviour. And when you are a broken human being, after clawing an ounce of sleep from the depths of desperation, that false smile is was saves you from being arrested for punching a pensioner in the nose! <br />
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Tongue clipper</h3>
I put this effective little clip on my tongue every time I go to playgroup. It stops me saying stuff like...<br />
"You are full of bullshit"<br />
"Your child's behaviour is horrendous"<br />
"Please don't speak to me like that"<br />
"I really don't give a shit!"<br />
"I know you love your child desperately, but we don't"<br />
"Liar!"<br />
"Does your voice always do that singsong thing or do you save it for when you are talking to me?"<br />
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"The Big Hummm"</h3>
This is really useful to bring out every time anyone wants to give you some advice. It works with all ages; if they are 70, 7 or 37, it is still very effective. All you have to do is let them speak and listen. Then pause. Now, just when it's quiet, throw a big "hummmmm" into the air, Then pause again. They will think you are considering it deeply, when really you are thinking: "<em>I will never ever do what you just said"</em><br />
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"It's OK (not really) face."</h3>
When you say it's Ok, but your face is telling a very different story. Letting someone know, it is OK, but if it EVER happens again it won't be.<br />
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Very handy to have with you at all times. <br />
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Instances I have found it worthy of being used:<br />
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<li>When you pick your child up from nursery and they have been allowed to glue their hat to their head</li>
<li>When your child breaks something VERY important, Like your phone, laptop, brother's favourite toy.</li>
<li>When your child accidentally spills a drink down you</li>
<li>When your own child spews up down your back</li>
<li>When someone mistakes you for being pregnant and you are FUCKING not! Actually, that's never ok.</li>
<li>When a stranger gets your child's gender wrong.</li>
<li>When an acquaintance calls your child Johnny. It's Jonty!</li>
<li>When you arrive to collect your child from somewhere and send out the wrong one!</li>
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So Mums, mums to be, Dads and the rest of the human race, share your secrets -what invisible tools do you carry around you?<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-25195933255532978542013-01-26T00:46:00.002-08:002013-01-26T01:11:26.442-08:00Skillz; My top 3 falls.There's few things I can say I am better at that anyone else. Firstly, anything that involves sport or coordination is ruled out with my first breath. Then, anything that involves deadlines or punctuality is obliterated with my second. And if it happens to require any level of tidiness or cleanliness then it's also gone...<br />
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But one skill I have acquired over the years is being good at falling. <br />
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And do you know what? I'm going to put it out there and say: I'm better than most. To be fair it has taken a lot of inappropriate shoes, some unsavoury amounts of alcohol and a clumsy DNA make up to perfect this art. But that's right Falling is my skill!<br />
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Now let's just make it clear here, I wouldn't want you to get the wrong end of the stick. I'm not good at falling in a "Oh she nearly fell but saved herself kind of way", oh no, I'm good at falling in a "Ha ha she landed on her face" kind of way. <br />
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And by good, I mean I have done it spectacularly, in a variety of places, in front of various people and with a vast amount of humiliation. But what I do well is damage limitation. I have never broken a bone (except the odd toe or a thumb, but no one counts those do they?).<br />
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Therefore, with the wintry weather hanging around like a bad smell, and every other day being pot luck between slippy-slidey-catch-you-off-guard-slush and fatal-ice-patches, I was sure this week's blog would be a cringy snapshot of me landing on my arse, in the snow, in front of all the other mums at the school gate. But, alas, it isn't. I didn't. That post can wait till next year. <br />
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But not one to disappoint, I thought I'd relive my 3 most spectacular falls of all time. Just because there's nothing I like more on a Saturday morning that a bit of self-humiliation.<br />
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<u>MY TOP 3 FALLS OF ALL TIME! </u><br />
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In no particular order...<br />
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1. The starfish<br />
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So notoriously Newly Qualified Teacher's get wankered at the end of year do. It's just how it works. They haven't quite grasped "professional drinking" and are still partaking in that no-rules "student drinking", where not being able to talk or walk by 10pm is quite acceptable.<br />
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Anyhow, after the official "do", some of us continued unofficially drinking in a night club, which is always a good idea when you will be teaching 30 teenagers the next morning. And whilst on the edge of the dance floor, stood with my new, young and trendy colleagues,one second I was stood up drink in hand, and the next, <span style="background-color: white;">inexplicably lay on my back</span> in the shape of a star fish. There was no obvious reason for this fall. I wasn't even doing that "dancing in one spot" thing. If it hadn't been for the bang and the huge bruise on my arse you would have thought I just taken position down there for a rest. But no, it was definitely a fall. <br />
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And the following may or may not be true<br />
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<li>There were some of the current 11 pupils in the night club</li>
<li>I was down there for some time</li>
<li>I woke up with night club sludge in my hair</li>
<li>I was still pissed the next day at work</li>
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2. The somersault.<br />
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In my final year at university, My brother and Sister joined me for New Year Celebrations. This year Newcastle was true to form: loud, drunken and cold (it was snowing in fact). After 3 years in The 'Toon I had joined in the Geordie spirit of freezing to death on a night out. This night's attire included brand new knee high boots and a mini skirt. <br />
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We ended the night at a house party. I remember downing something disgusting being passed off as punch in the kitchen, I remember doing a samba style dance to Van Morrison's 'Moondance' in the living room (pretty much entailed my house mate throwing me around the room) and I remember there were many drinking games and I joined in them all! The next thing I remember is talking to my brother at the top of the stairs slurring and spitting "No, it's totally not time to go home" and then I descended the stairs via a somersault (unplanned, obviously). The party guests in the downstairs living room, apparently had the best view as my somersault continued past the entrance and along the hallway!<br />
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The next day I was told the noise as I tumbled deafened the party music, the fall itself was "death-defying" and my emergence, where I stood up holding the heel from my new boot in my hand saying " Yes, you're right it is time to go", would be told at New Year's Parties for years to come!<br />
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<strong>3. The scissors!</strong><br />
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I am notorious for wearing inappropriate shoes. So when I was pregnant with my first child, I was determined to be extra cautious in the bad weather. I decided to abandon all fashion sense and don a pair of walking boots to make the journey from my car to the school gates safely.<br />
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I had managed two days without feeling unsteady on the ice, on the third, I poured myself out of the driver seat, pushed the front seat forward, smiled at my passing colleagues, as I turned and bent over to retrieve my bag from the back seat. Just then my walking boot skidded on some ice, I lost my footing and tumbled head first into the back of my car. My pregnant arse, legs, and walking boots were left sticking out the doorway like a pair of scissors with boxing gloves on the end! I don't think any pupils were there to witness this masterpiece, but I know the male PE department did, as they were the ones who pulled me out!<br />
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So I challenge you to give me your worst? Are you better at falling than me? Prove it!<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-67675539736526900442013-01-12T06:44:00.000-08:002013-01-12T09:14:43.866-08:00"Captain Barnacles do you read me?" My eldest son always had a toy he LOVED. Really loved. Toys he took everywhere. Toys he absent-mindedly left everywhere. Toys his parents spent hours retrieving from EVERYWHERE. Everywhere being playgroups, leisure centres, shopping centres, church halls and sandpits. We were forever banging on doors, after hours, asking if there happened to be a plastic Thomas the tank engine left behind. (In later years it was the less recognised and smaller die cast Lightening Mcqueen). <br />
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Therefore, we were slightly relieved when our second son, wasn't really that into a particular toy and never really got attached to a fictional character. On the downside buying birthday and Christmas presents for him was a real chore. We would desperately grasp at an idea, knowing full well it wouldn't really be right. If he showed a faint interest in something one week, we would buy all the merchandise for it and by the time his birthday came, you could guarantee he was over it. <br />
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However,this year we hit the present jackpot, Just as he started watching "Octonauts" We ordered him this... <br />
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The Octopod!<br />
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It was a huge success, beyond our parenting dreams. In fact, aftrer opening it first he refused to open any other Christmas presents. i admit it was a bit uncomfortable to watch the in laws looking wistfully at their discarded, still wrapped presents he had barely glanced at, but still, triumph was ours... We had cracked it. We were present buying geniuses!<br />
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He played with it all day. <br />
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And when he couldn't play with it (when he was eating Christmas dinner, in the bath and sleeping) he tightly clutched the two little plastic figures, which had come with it, as if he was guarding the secret to eternal happiness.<br />
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And that's where they stayed, Captain Barnacles and Kwazii, in his little fists. They went everywhere with him. He LOVED a toy! Well, two. He loved two little toys!<br />
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Then the holidays ended and real life began again. It was with a lump of dread I thought about Kwazii and Barnacles coming on the school run with us, it was with sweaty palms I thought of them joining us at playgroup and with a sharp breath I considered whether they would float or sink in the swimming baths. <br />
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But fortunately, our middlest son was not quite as absent-minded as his brother. He would safely put them in the buggy when he wanted to slide down the fireman's pole at the park (a two handed job). He would never leave a venue without checking they were on his person. On exited the car he would say "Kwazii? Yes. Captain Barnables? Yes. Let's go"<br />
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How refreshing this was. What a clever little poppet.<br />
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But then we had a real test: playgroup. When playgroup morning arrived Middlest son bounded into the church hall. Kwazii in one fist, Barnacles in the other and the other children fell silent. He eyed their salivating mouths as they clasped sight of the NEW TOYS. In a flash he had scampered up to me "Mama! In your bag!" he said placing them safely into my hand bag and returning to the pit to fight over a broken train set and a battered pushchair with his contemporaries. <br />
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The rest of the day we were busy. We went food shopping, to the library, nursery and had a play date. It wasn't until he was in the bath he turned to The FH and said "Where's Captain Barnables? Where's Kwazii?"<br />
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The FH turned to me, suddenly aware he hadn't seen them in his clenched fists all evening. <br />
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"It's OK I've got them" I said smugly tottering down the stairs. <br />
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My heart actually stopped when my fumbling hand could only find one plastic figure in my bag. One cat shaped figure. <br />
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Barnacles had gone. <br />
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Jumped ship. <br />
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I'd lost him.<br />
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I returned to the bathroom. Handed Middlest Kwazii, avoided eye contact and turned on my heel. "Where's Captain Barnables?" said a little voice behind me. I caught The FH's eyes, searched for some words, failed to find any, and tried not to cry."<br />
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The FH stepped in "he's on on a mission." <br />
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But try as we might we couldn't palm him off. We could tell him he was hiding, he was on an adventure, he was saving a star fish from a near fatal sea-cliff fall. But Middlest Son only repeated "Where is Captain Barnables?"<br />
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It was the last thing he said at night. <br />
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And the first thing he said when he woke up. <br />
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And every time I looked into his little sad eyes a little piece of me died. <br />
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And every time he went looking for him The FH turned to me and shook his head. Because I obviously needed help feeling guilty. I clearly wasn't managing to feel the guilt by myself. I must have looked far too happy.. Even though I was fucking suffocating in the guilt!<br />
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So then next morning I logged onto amazon and ordered a replacement. Delivery said "3- 5 days". 3-5 Days! We couldn't continue like this for 5 days. In 5 days this guilt would have eaten away like a ravenous carnivore. In 5 days I would be nothing more than a pile of bones and flesh and guilt slobber! This was clearly the emergency moment when I paid for an express delivery. This warranted the extra cost right? Wrong, At the checkout I discovered the express charge was more than the toy itself. Fuck it... we would wait 5 days. <br />
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Two days passed and Middlest Son was a shadow of him former self, clutching desperately to Kwazii, reluctant to let him out of his sight for a second; I, especially, was not allowed to touch him. <br />
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We unearthed an old Captain Barnacles that had belonged to his brother. He was wearing a red diving suit, instead of the official blue Octonaut costume and only had one arm, but we thought it would help. It didn't. He threw it away in disgust. And who could blame him? It wasn't Captain Barnables, Barnables wore blue and had two arms. This was an Octonaut impostor! <br />
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So he continued to cling onto Kwazii. I had to persuade the nursery staff to let him break the unwritten rule of "no toys from home" on the grounds he was being clingy after the holidays. Thank god they agreed. I couldn't tell them there was no way on this earth he was going to hand over that toy over to me, his mother, The Loser of Favourite Toys. <br />
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Then finally, one afternoon, when he was at nursery, the postman delivered a brown parcel which was branded with those lovely shiny black letters Amazon. Gushing many thank yous to a bewildered postman was the only way of stopping myself offering to bear his unborn children as a way of showing my appreciation.<br />
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I spent the next hour extracting Captain B from its child proof packaging and then hopped, skipped and smiled my way to the school. I was giddy. This was going to be better than Christmas. <br />
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A solemn looking nursery teacher opened the door and my giddy smile slid off my face. This look was usually saved for telling a parent their child was either covered in poo or had had a scrap with another kid and come off worse. Either way I was sure I could cheer him up with Barnacles.<br />
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"He's a bit upset..." She began, looking at the floor.<br />
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"...We're not sure how..." she continued, taking a deep breath<br />
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"...But in the last 10 minutes..." she paused and then blurted out.<br />
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"He's lost his little toy Kwazii. And we can't find him anywhere."<br />
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Middlest son appeared in the doorway silently sobbing. <br />
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"It's OK darling" I said brandishing Captain Barnacles in his face. "Look who Mama found"<br />
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He paused took hold of Barnacles, checked he was wearing blue and had two good arms, took a deep breath and said... "But Where's Kwazii?" and burst into tears.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-15592887634238288272012-12-30T10:19:00.000-08:002012-12-31T00:58:54.087-08:00The lost blogs of 2012Hello!<br />
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It's been a while. <br />
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I apologise. <br />
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All I can say is I've been... er... busy?<br />
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Yes. Busy. <br />
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Not busy writing THAT book. Or busy drinking posh coffee in fancy coffee shops. Or busy shopping. Or busy catching up with old friends. No, none of that busy. I've been the kind of busy where you can't really think of one thing you've been doing. But I know I have been busy. The bags under my eyes and my worn out soles tell me I have. <br />
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But I have thought about you often little blog, and your depleting and neglected followers and I feel I owe you something, some sort of explanation. <br />
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So here it is, in a nutshell... The blogs I never got round to writing in 2012 and the reasons why I didn't write them.<br />
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<u><strong>January</strong></u> -<strong><em>Life on <strike>Mars </strike>Twitter</em></strong> <br />
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I welcomed the New Year in with a new born baby. I started breast feeding again... and finally "got" Twitter. I had been on Twitter for years, but only by account name. I had never really been on it! You see Twitter, unlike Facebook, requires dedication, intelligence, maturity and a potty mouth. All of which I had time to muster whilst breastfeeding. I landed in a whole new Twitter world and felt very much at home. <br />
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<u><strong>February</strong></u> - <strong><em>Adenoids, Tonsils and Tantrums</em></strong><br />
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I made the jump from two children to three quite comfortably as I had given birth to the best behaved* (*sleepiest) new-born known to mankind. His sleepy disposition was indeed vital for our family to survive Middle Son's adenoidectomy and tonsillectomy which took place mid-February. After the op, the ENT paediatrician said we were in for a week of hell. He was wrong. It was worse than hell. And it lasted 2 weeks.<br />
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<strong><u>March</u></strong> - <strong><em>From Sunshine to snow. A mother's survival guide</em></strong><br />
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I can't remember March. Must have been busy! Oh I was, we had summer. It lasted 4 days. We were on the beach, we all got sand in our underwear, the baby turned mahogany and by the time I had unearthed last year's buckets and spades it had started to fucking snow!<br />
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<strong><u>April</u></strong> - <em><strong>Help! I look old!</strong></em><br />
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I turned 32. I felt old. I looked old. I didn't want to blog.<br />
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<u><strong>May</strong></u> - <em><strong>With Facebook comes great responsibility</strong></em><br />
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In the cruelest way I became aware of how precious life is and how insensitive social networking sites can be. My relationship with facebook was tested to its peak. I was reminded how self-absorbed some Facebook "friends" are, and then remembered why they are not real friends. I cried for a family who had lost. I was very grateful for the health of my own. <br />
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<strong><u>June</u></strong> -<strong><em>What happens in the park stays in the park</em></strong> <br />
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Most of June was spent recovering from a nasty experience at the park. Whilst some woodcutters, and lots of health and safety folk (including a nurse) stood blocking the main path watching a tree get felled, me and my sister managed to let go of our buggies (with babies aboard) and watch horrified as they went solo down a very steep hill. It was a moment of madness, one we have no answers for and that has scarred us permanently. But fortunately the babies (and buggies) survived without a scratch and the random nurse, who apparently is a necessity at a felling, gave them a once over and confirmed this. Still it was, at the time, too traumatic to blog about. <br />
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<strong><u>July</u></strong> - <strong><em> How to get over</em></strong> <strong><em>Wedding Blues - start planning your own!</em></strong><br />
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July was filled with my brother's wedding - the event of the year! The occasion was utterly gorgeous and wonderfully consuming. From the planning, the excitement, the actual day and the severe case of Wedding Blues that followed. But I wouldn't have spent July any other way. <br />
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<strong><u>August</u></strong> - <strong><em>Getting through customs with 4 Children and 2 Grandparents</em></strong><br />
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I gave myself over to the Olympics and then went on holiday to Cornwall to recover. We all went. All 12 of us! Getting through customs with 4 children, 2 buggies, 2 babies, 2 slings, 2 Grandparents, 1 sleep machine, no concept of travelling light and a big fuck off to the hand luggage liquid allowance... Yeah that was fun.<br />
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<strong><u>September</u></strong> - <strong><em>Why sensible people stop at 2.</em></strong><br />
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The baby started speed-crawling. I no longer had ANY free time. Oh I didn't have that any way, but now I had no blog time. No that was definitely gone. This was what having 3 Children was really like: busy!<br />
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<strong><u>October</u></strong> - <strong><em>Why are some woman just horrible?</em></strong><br />
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October was spent mainly avoiding women I don't like. I mean I used to do this at work. That was tough. But then I was a teacher, I was going to have to put up with bitching, whispers, immaturity and name calling. But that's just what staff rooms are like these days! At least the kids were nice. But I have realised that those damn right nasty women are everywhere: on the school run, at play groups, in an office, standing at a bus top... That whispering, the false smile, the tilted head, the high pitched voice. You know what I mean. I am SO sick of walking into a room of women and facing that pathetic facade as they pretend they haven't been talking about you. Just lay off each other girls! Life can be unpleasant enough.<br />
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<u><strong>November</strong></u> <em><strong>Movember.</strong> </em><br />
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He grew a tash, raised a couple of hundred quid, looked terrible and didn't get a kiss for a whole month . "Silver linings" he said. But underneath my disgust at his ginger handlebars I was proud of him. He hates facial hair and he did it to help a tutor group in his house who were unmotivated about raising money for charity. So credit where it's due. He gave up the rights to kiss me to help others. That deserves a clap! <br />
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Even though their old fashioned moustache's look ridiculous with modern hair cuts, I think Movember is a good thing. I like Men coming together to raise awareness about Men's Health. I like the return of a Moustache, the statement, the solidarity. I just don't like how it feels on my lip. It's like kissing me dad! Ew!<br />
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<strong><u>December</u></strong> - <strong><em>Festive frolics no more...I am a Weightwatchers bore!</em></strong><br />
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I joined weightwatchers. When usually I am planning for the indulgence of Christmas I spent December tracking, planning and weighing food. Believe me it's not as fun as I just made it sound. And My God is it all-consuming! Yes, it worked I lost a stone in 5 weeks, but the downside was how boring I became. I did advise people to stop following me on twitter, avoid me in the pub and under no circumstances phone me up, as there was a strong chance I could bore them into oblivion telling them about how many points there is a Jacob's cracker and exactly how I made the lovely zero point roasted vegetables I ate for tea.<br />
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We were all relieved when Christmas arrived.. The baby turned 1 and started walking, We made it through with only mild illnesses (no hospitalisations so we are improving) and generally a good time was had by all! Success... And yes I looked bloody good in my size 12 TopShop skinny jeans!<br />
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So That was that! 2012, the year I barely blogged. <br />
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And what are my resolutions for 2013?<br />
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1) To blog more<br />
2) To write that book<br />
3) To get married<br />
4) To move into a bigger house<br />
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3 and 4 strictly rely on me doing 2 and not 1. So we'll see!<br />
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Anyway, thanks for everyone who has started following the blog, continued to pop by and read my musings and especially those who commented ( even the bridezillas - you too!) It's been a good year, but I promise more activity on here next year. At least one thing's for sure. I won't be preggers this year... No we've made sure that's not happening again! <br />
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Happy New Year! Bring it in with a bang! Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-77960613696401161832012-11-01T09:37:00.003-07:002012-11-01T09:41:17.048-07:00Lists (6) - Halloween<br />
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Lists - the spooky edition!</h2>
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Sorry no pictures of my kids in Halloween costumes here. None on my phone, on my FB page or on twitter. Haven't even got one on instagram! Sorry. You know, because I bet you haven't seen enough pictures have you? I bet your Facebook News Feed is a Halloween drought isn't it? <br />
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Ok... I can rustle up one of our pumpkins, just for you, just because I know you are starved of spooky shots...<br />
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We call them Spooked, Narked and Wasted.</div>
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How was that? Better. Ok, let's continue with the post.<br />
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Things I love and hate about Halloween...<br />
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<span style="color: red;">Love</span></h2>
1) <strong><u>I just love a theme!</u></strong> I'm all about themes. I just like to know what is heart of something. Just tell me what we're basing it on and I'll go hell for leather with you. So Halloween's a good one then. You've got crafts, baking, parties, fancy dress, discos, all spooky. Easy I can do that. Apart from this year, as an extra child seemed to make it a push too far! But next year I'm going all out I can tell ya - like a bat outta hell. <br />
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2) <strong><u>Pumpkin Carving.</u></strong> So we have an annual pumpkin carving competition in our house. Me versus Him! And I love it... because being creative is my thing! The FH gets to beat me at every sport on the planet. I get "Arty Shit" it's how we work. Every year he refuses to admit my pumpkin is better, but it is! <br />
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This year the 5 year old joined in too. He designed it and The FH carved it for him (we are not mental, we didn't let him do that bit on his own). And this year I let twitter decide which one was the winner. Guess who they picked? Yeah the kid's. Wankers.<br />
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3) <strong><u>Giving. Not Taking</u></strong>! Do you know what my eldest son's favourite bit of Halloween is? Opening the door and giving out sweets. He doesn't even ask to have one himself. He just loves giving them out and saying "Happy Halloween" - how cute is he? Especially dressed up as a bat! He charms the scariest of them all!<br />
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1) <strong><u>Knocking on strangers doors.</u></strong> It's all a bit wrong isn't it. We're not there yet. Thank god. So I haven't had to endure that battle with them. But really knocking on stranger's doors? Do we have to? It just makes me uncomfortable. I don't mind if you want to come and knock on mine. We'll even have a tub of sweets waiting, but ask me to go out in the cold, dark October rain and knock on strangers doors. No I don't like the thought of that.<br />
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2) <u><strong>At the stroke of midnight on Halloween, Christmas will begin.</strong></u> For the big guns, the companies, the advertisers, all Halloween has become is a signal for Christmas commercialism to begin. November the 1st - the start of Christmas being rammed down your throat! Soon we'll be telling our kids "You know why you dress up on Halloween don't you? To ward off Christmas? Yes that's right, we do it to tell Christmas to fuck off for another 30 days and come back on December the 1st.<br />
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3) <strong><u>Taking, Not Giving.</u> </strong>So yesterday we took the eldest and a couple of mates to a Halloween disco. One of the parents kindly gave us a fiver to buy some sweets for them all. We filled one of those pumpkin buckets with sweets from the tuck shop and they came and topped on sugar and ran round a dark hall intermittently. At one point an acquaintance type parent type sat next to me. When she eyed the sweet tub she said "Have you already been Trick an' Treating?" <br />
"No" I replied "We bought them here". She looked dumbfounded. A few moments later her son came and asked for some money, she replied "I'm not paying for sweets here, when we can get them for free afterwards"<br />
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Lo and behold who should come knocking on my door later... Awkward!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-21917015635117965022012-11-01T08:16:00.005-07:002012-11-01T08:16:50.943-07:00"Next time I have a good idea.."The conversation started like this…<br />
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<em>Me: When we are in Liverpool I want to take J somewhere he’ll really love for his birthday. </em><br />
<em>Him: Ok, any ideas?</em><br />
<em>Me: A really good swimming baths, that has a slide and some paddling pool bits. He’d love that. </em><br />
<em>Him: I know just the place – Rhyl Sun Centre! We used to go there as kids, but I think they have knocked it down and rebuilt it…</em><br />
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Erm, by the way – THEY HAVEN’T!<br />
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It still looks exactly like this…<br />
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No I tell a lie, the Monorail has gone.<br />
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And to quote my darling OH “No, it’s still exactly the same. In fact I did a crap here in 1987 and it’s still in the Lav!”<br />
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Let me first start saying if I was under the age of 15 I would have a loved it! For children who don’t care for mouldy tiles, floating plasters and a really disturbing smells it is swimming paradise! Really! The slides, the surf boards, the waves – they are a child’s dream!<br />
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Bur for parents, who just want to make it through the holiday without their children catching dysentery then it’s pretty much hell!<br />
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Before we arrived I hadn’t paid much attention to the name, but that is actually the theme, crank the heaters up so you feel abroad. The centre recreates “tropical conditions” and there’s holiday style plastic tables and parasols and sun loungers scattered all around. And people, who don’t actually go in the water, just go to sit and read the paper! Really! They are just there for the weather!<br />
And with the heat comes the smell! My word the smell! If I close my eyes and I try really hard. Yes it’s still there. Still very much there. I can’t describe it. It’s something you have to experience, but be warned… Only the brave will survive.<br />
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We renamed the paddling pool “Cornplaster Corner”, the wave machine “The Shit Machine” because it increased the smell and the walkway “The Bridge of Doom”. But don’t let us put you off we probably just have high standards of hygiene (we don’t).<br />
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What else? I can’t comment on the food, the smell had knocked me sick so I couldn’t eat. But everything was pretty pricy, including entry fee. The changing rooms were ok-ish! Showers worked fine, I think, it all became a bit of a blur at that point and was carrying a 9 month old baby most of the time. And they have a shop too! To buy souvenirs and swimwear and floats and stuff – just like really being abroad!<br />
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But the reason we went… for the kids! They loved it. They loved the slides, the wave machine, the burger and chips and the water shoots! The only thing that the little ones didn’t like was when the sprinklers from the ceiling went off – which is understandable as it’s like being in a big shower really and you know what it’s like trying to get little ones to take a shower!<br />
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If you are not at all squeamish or have no sense of smell and want to visit the Rhyl Sun Centre you can find more information here <a href="http://www.rhylsuncentre.co.uk/">http://www.rhylsuncentre.co.uk/</a>. And it’s worth a look just for the youtube video, it really captures the essence of the place!<br />
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NB: The photos are borrowed from this website <a href="http://rhyl-life.blogspot.co.uk/2009/05/rhyl-sun-centre.html">http://rhyl-life.blogspot.co.uk/2009/05/rhyl-sun-centre.html</a> and this one <a href="http://www.attractionsnorthwales.co.uk/attractions/rhyl-sun-centre">http://www.attractionsnorthwales.co.uk/attractions/rhyl-sun-centre</a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-25653251722184000682012-10-20T00:48:00.002-07:002012-10-20T01:11:38.415-07:00Judgy McParents... Here you go... Have a field day!Ok, I'm going to be very honest here. I have a confession. And, you are the first to know... <br />
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I. Am. A. Hypocrite. <br />
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There. I said it. <br />
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What ya gonna do about it? <br />
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Let me explain further?<br />
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2 years ago, when my eldest was the age my middle child is (3 and 1/4) at exactly this time of year (October) we (me and some other mums) were discussing possible Christmas present ideas for our kids who were all in the same class. I was absolutely horrified to discover a couple of them were buying their children a DS. And my face, bless its cotton socks, does not hide horror well. They justified it to me with "they have older siblings"/ "it's the only thing they want"/"blah blah blah"<br />
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I couldn't believe children as young as this were being given such expensive and anti-social items. <br />
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But a year later and my eldest had too become a computer fiend: they had access to i pads and i pod touches at school; his grandparents had a touch screen PC which he loved: he mastered the mouse on our laptop; and, begrudgingly, we had relented and downloaded some "educational" apps on our phone. Basically the digital world had crept up on us and now it had his virtual fingers around our necks. So, that Christmas we decided we would get him his own tablet style computer. <br />
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But we weren't irresponsible, frivolous parents. We researched this properly. We found the most educational and value-for-money tablet there was and that was the one he got. A Leap pad explorer. And he loved it. He could take pictures (me in the bath) video record (me breast feeding) and access educational math and phonic games as well as e-books.<br />
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The downside was that it turned out every app cost at least £7 each and any Disney or mainstream apps were around £20. But we set it up as reward system for doing well at school, so he earned a new app. (I know, evil aren't we?)<br />
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A few months later his younger brother threw it on the floor and smashed the screen. Game over. And with Leap Pad being an American company it seemed nowhere in the UK was able to repair it for us. There we go. Money well spent!<br />
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So this year all he does want is a new i pad (bless him, he really thinks it was one) and we have been wondering what to do. <br />
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We know if we had bought him a i pod touch or a DS last year and the screen had broken we could have got it fixed ANYWHERE. We also know that Android or apple tablets have thousands and thousands of free apps. Some educational too. and out of the ones you have to buy the most expensive is usually around £4. We also know that these hand held devices do last a lot longer in terms of "growing with your child" if they can mange not to break or lose them in that period. <br />
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But deciding the 5 year old ( most of his year group is 6) will get some sort of handheld computer device for Christmas was pretty definite. <br />
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But what about his 3 year old brother?<br />
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The one who is obsessed with anything digital: phones, laptops, ipads and beebies. The one who is throws terrible tantrums when it comes to sharing and taking turns. The one who has every toy suitable for his age group because his older brother already had it. The one who wouldn't want any of his own presents if he sees his brother with THAT. What do we get him? <br />
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The equivalent cost in plastic crap that he won't use or bother with past January? <br />
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A bike or scooter? Even though our shed is full of barely used ones?<br />
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Generally as parents, we are more sensible than most when it comes to Christmas spending. We can't afford to be anything else, we have three kids and one income!<br />
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So when I sat with my OH last night discussing digital Christmas presents and said "Do we get Jonty one too?" I then had to scramble around on the floor, pick up those dirty words and eat them! Because yes, I was THAT parent and I AM that parent, I'm a hypocrite. <br />
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The truth is I don't want my 3 year old to have an ipod touch, or a DS or similar. And the truth is he probably won't get one. But if he did, it would make my life a lot easier. <br />
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Yes, there would be no arguments, no fighting and no tantrums, yes it would keep him quiet whilst I was making dinner, or breastfeeding the baby or you know, blogging. But in reality what is that teaching him? <br />
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It's ok you never have to talk to us. You never have to share. Yes, the world does revolve around you.<br />
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And in buying him it am I not just giving in to this materialistic world of ours? Just giving in because it's easy. Giving in because I feel guilty about the world being such a shitty place. Do we all fill our homes with expensive crap for them because we are too scared to let them go outside on their own? <br />
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Of course, given a choice, I want them to have my childhood. Where a computer was what Dad borrowed from school in the 6 week holidays and was shared between three of us. The games were on 5 inch floppy discs which loaded up to the sound of a tractor revving its engine. On a good day the games loaded up, the rest of the time it just made the noise. I want them to spend the rest of their free time making dens in the woods, skateboarding in alleyways, staying out till they are near dehydrated and only returning to glug a litre of water and grab an apple. I want them to have all that rather than a computer. But sadly, today, the police are still searching for a 5 year old's body, and for now, my children are just too small and too precious to be let loose in that world without me. <br />
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What do think blogging hemisphere? Do we put an age limit on digital gifts? Did you? How old were your kids when they got their first computer-esque gift?<br />
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I dunno what the answer is, maybe I'll just right a letter to some bearded bloke with a soft spot for the colour red and see what he thinks!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-48986911761016835672012-10-19T02:42:00.003-07:002012-10-19T05:40:41.988-07:00My techy kids!My hypothetical kids were never going to watch TV, own computer games or have Mobile phones. My hypothetical kids would need nothing more that a good book and a bit of playdough. We certainly wouldn't be considering buying those hypothetical kids an ipod touch for their 3rd and 5th Christmas.<br />
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However, my real, breathing, demanding and digital kids are very different!<br />
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The TV is the 6th member of our family (they don't understand why he doesn't come on family days out with us) , the ipad is one of their toys and they laugh in the face of mobile phone security pins! <br />
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So these techy kids amazed me twice this week... <br />
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1) My Mum rang me up to tell me that after my 3 year old had been playing on her ipad, she recieved an email saying he add ordered a £90 electric fire from 1-click-to-buy amazon which would be delivered in the morning. <br />
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2) I had to explain to my 5yo that not everyone can pause live TV. And that unfortunately we are part of that few! <br />
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This led me to think of many future conversations I will have with my kids where they say "Shut up!" in disbelief (Essex accent optional)<br />
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1) "What? You had to go a Library? Why?"<br />
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2) "You couldn't pause live TV? What did you do if you needed a wee?"<br />
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3) "You wrote letters!"<br />
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4) " You had to start every Facebook update with <strong><em>'is</em></strong>' "<br />
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5) "You didn't photoshop your pictures! You must have looked terrible"<br />
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6) "You didn't have a mobile till you were 18! How did you tell the time?"<br />
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7) "What? When mobiles first came out nobody texted?"<br />
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8) "You wrote your exams by hand!"<br />
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9) "You used money - wasn't that in the olden days"<br />
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10) "What the hell is a pager?"<br />
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11) "Nokia? What's a Nokia?"<br />
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When Nokia Ruled the World!</div>
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But the truth is, this is the world they live! And the digital transformation means it is a world that revolves around them. Then can pause the television whilst they run up for a wee and not have to desperately hold on till an advert break! They can find any TV programme on the internet and watch till their heart's content. Any piece of homework is only a copy and paste click away! <br />
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I have to except this is part of their lives and that the digital world is only going to get faster! Cbeebies is only going to become a better babysitter, it may even provide digital snacks one day! And they will run with it, as I jog slowly behind. I guess my job isn't to prevent them having access, but to protect them whilst they do.<br />
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Anyway, back to the comedy...<br />
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Please make me laugh... tell me what your kids will be unable to believe about the world you grew up in!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-4146323590354161162012-09-18T14:02:00.001-07:002012-09-19T00:15:29.546-07:00She wore an itsy bitsy, teen weeny, mustard yellow, crochet-string, bikiniTwo things happened this week. <br />
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1) I sat on the beach at the weekend, with my family, relaxing. The children played (ate sand, knocked over sandcastles and threw bombs stones in the sea) whilst I people-watched (discreetly as I was wearing sunglasses). <br />
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I happened to be taken by a lovely, boden-clad family. There were two Mums and 2 boys and a girl. I couldn't tell which child belonged to which, but that didn't matter. What was more interesting was that at first I couldn't tell what gender the children were. They were aged between 8 and 11 and all wearing beach shorts nothing on the top. It wasn't until the middle child took of a baseball cap and a mop of long hair was let loose that I realised she was in fact a girl. <br />
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How refreshing to see a young girl innocent, free and comfortable on the beach. <br />
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She reminded me of me. My younger self. This one... <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Sporting the towelling stripey trunks. Think they may have even had a 'Y' on the front too.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Going topless in a dinghy</td></tr>
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I never owned a "two piece" as a child. In fact I was under the belief that girls either got a swimming costume or trunks. I thought you could only get bikinis if ... you know <whispers> had boobs! This is because my Mum only ever bought us the bottoms, and in the earlier days when she couldn't find any for girls, as they didn't sell bikinis for babies then, she would put us in trunks. <br />
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She said we were happier in them. Which we probably were. The one summer she did by us a swimming costume for our hols we spent the whole summer unstrapping them and rolling them down to our middle. Trendsetters that we were. <br />
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But she's right swimming costumes are uncomfortable and down right painful when sand is involved too.<br />
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When were about 8 and 9 we got given a binbag of "hand me downs" from a second cousin. Amongst the usual dross we came across 2 bikinis - one green and pink! I begged my mum to let me wear one for my swimming-themed birthday party. Surprisingly she agreed; I emotionally blackmailed her saying it was the only thing I wanted for my birthday. However, the joy was short lived, because as soon as the wave machine came on the damn thing untied itself and floated away! Turned out my. mum had taken us to one of those feminist water-parks.<br />
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2) Jessica Simpson shared this picture of her daughter on live TV...<br />
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Babies in bikinis! What is that all about? I thought we had hit ridiculous-celebrity-parenting- mecca with Suri Cruise and the high heels. But no, it seems to have got worse. And just like Suri and those sodding heels, I feel a parenting "trend" starting and it makes me feel a little sick.<br />
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Now, I don't have daughters, so you can shoot me down in flames because I don't know how hard a 4 year old girl will scream if you don't let them wear a pair of heels to a birthday party or school disco! But I'm pretty sure if my hypothetical daughter did my response would be: "Fine! You don't go."<br />
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There were things I begged my Mum for that I never got. A bikini, obviously, the Clarks shoes with a slight heel and a secret key hidden it (you know the ones) and a perm (thank god). And yes we probably kicked up a stink. My god some of my tantrums became urban legends amongst the townsfolk round here. But she still said no. Because all girls want to dress sup and pretend to be "grown-ups" but there is a place for that and it is in the same room as the dressing up box. Because as parents we have the responsibility to make sure are children are safe, comfortable and, primarily, children.<br />
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The desire to over-sexualise young girls, and now babies, with adult clothing is something I cannot get my head round. Please for the love of god encourage them to be kids. They have so many years ahead of them to battle with badly fitting bikinis and to struggle with walking in heels, for now just let them play at being grown ups. but the rest of the time, what's wrong with them looking and acting like children?<br />
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Plus, every girl I have seen totter into a birthday party in a pair of "Suri" heels has kicked them off within 2 minutes so they can run around with the other kids. So they can do the things children really like doing: being free and unconstrained - from adult concepts as well as inappropriate adult clothing.<br />
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The bikini as an item of clothing is burdened with sexual connotations. The media uses the word "bikini" as a weapon: each summer it is a measure of which celebrity bodies are "bikini-proof". Our younger generation is being suffocated by a pressure to become part of an adult world too soon. A world that is saturated with body-image, sex and the pressure to "fit-in". How early are we introducing our children to this world? And how long are we going to let celebrities and the media dictate how we bring up our children?<br />
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For me, the one gift we can give are children for free is innocence and the longer they can enjoy it, the happier they will be as adults.<br />
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But if you disagree with me, you are in good company. This week the fabulous parenting role model Liz Hurley has bought out her own designer children's swimwear collection... IN LEOPARD PRINT! <br />
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Are we really allowing celebrities to set trends in parenting? People who are out of touch with the real-world, with real parenting issues and real children who need to be told the word "no". Where the sole aim is to desperately claw at some good publicity, and detract from the fact they haven't lost their baby weight and are being squeezed into a heavily structured, black dress for their TV reveal? (I'm talking Jess Simpson here) Really? *These people* <br />
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Just look at all the fuss the Duchess of Cambridge has caused by removing her bikini top... How does your 5 year old feel about that? Couldn't care less? Wouldn't understand? Wouldn't want to or need to? Mine neither.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-87469947827248560772012-09-08T01:06:00.000-07:002012-09-08T10:19:16.036-07:00No Children Please!Ok, so there are places that are appropriate for children and there are places that aren't. <br />
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We all know that. <br />
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I haven't taken my kids out clubbing with me (because the last time I went was 2002) or to theatre to watch <em>Our Country's Good</em> (also in 2002). But I wouldn't anyway. I rarely take them to a restaurant these days, unless it has a huge outdoor space when they can partake in some lungeing pony training to tire them out before they are forced to sit still for 3 and half minutes.<br />
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But before I had kids you wouldn't have found me eating in Pizza Hut at 5.00pm. <br />
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Like I was saying, there are places you expect to find kids and places you don't. <br />
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And maybe I am out of touch, but two places I expect to find children is on aeroplanes and at weddings!<br />
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Before I had kids. I travelled A LOT more. We had holidays back then you see, real ones, where you go to another country - one that is hot! And do you know what? I can't remember there NOT being a child on the flight. In fact, I think on every flight I had a small child in the same row as me. But I expected that. I expected them to be sat right next to me and scream the whole 4 hours. And if they didn't then it was a bonus. <br />
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But if there was a noisy child on the flight, do you know what I did? I put my ear phones on and I watched a film or played some music. And I didn't hear a thing. Simple. <br />
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I find the fact that an American couple, who were taking their twin boys on a trip to visit their Grandparents, felt the need to provide "apology" gifts to the whole plane, absolutely ludicrous. <br />
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Here's the gift bag... some sweets, a sickly note written by <strike>over thoughtful Mum and dad</strike>, the twins, and ear plugs.<br />
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Apparently the <strike>apology for reproducing</strike> "gifts" took ages to prepare... Which boils my piss even more as THEY have twins! How did they find the time? Just look after your babies. Every one else will cope. I'm sure they've heard worse.<br />
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So sorry folks, from now on we are all going to look like thoughtless bastards if we just show up at the airport with our kids. And if you do, you'll probably get some joker in a suit, sat in front of you, who says "Where's my present?" as soon as your child starts to whinge. It's ok, you have my permission to give him a bunch of fives!<br />
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I recently took a one hour flight with three kids. Four including my nephew, who was also on the flight. The kids were really well behaved on the plane, to be fair they ran riot round the airport but on the plane they were good. But still a jumped up, spotty student still felt the need to turn round and give me daggers every time my 8 month old babbled. Babbled. Not cried or screamed, he just babbled. If I hadn't been too busy giving out lollies, breast feeding, loading games on i pads, reading a book, colouring in and singing a nursery rhymes I would have stuck my middle finger up his upturned nostrils. But I was too busy ensuring my children were entertained. I was parenting. So, instead I wished him the worst fate I could think of. I wished him a colicky baby. Therefore, in the future when he was was pacing the streets in the middle of night, begging for sleep, clawing at the edges of sanity, he would look back on that flight to Newquay and think "my God that women had a well-behaved baby. What an ignorant little cock I was?"<br />
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Which brings me nicely on to weddings...<br />
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Weddings? Yes weddings, that FAMILY occasion, where the FAMILY comes together to celebrate a couple who are statistically very likely to have children, if they haven't already. <br />
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So with it being such a family occasion I cannot fathom why some people make it a"No children affair".<br />
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What are they afraid of? They might make a noise during a speech? Well at least someone will, chances are it's going to be naff anyway. They might not match with the colour scheme? They might have fun? Fart? Breathe? <br />
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Do you know what? I'm already bored of your wedding. I'm glad I'm not going.<br />
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Some people have said their parent guests asked them to make it "no children" - who are these people with unlimited baby sitters? And why did they have children? Was it purely because they felt left out because they couldn't shop in <em>Mamas and Papas</em>? <br />
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But it's their wedding, it's up to them. Just please don't send me an invite saying "No Children Affair" on it. Please don't expect me to face the guilt of asking someone to look after my 3 kids for a whole day AND night. And if by some miracle, I do find that angel, then please don't let me come to your "No Children Affair" to discover there are actually children there. The "special" children who are allowed to go, because they are <strike>under strict instruction not to be child-like</strike> blood relatives. The ones who are bored shitless, because they are stuck with loads of pompous adults who don't want to interact with them. The ones who are having their playful souls ripped from their chests as they watch Uncle Knobhead get wankered.<br />
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My brother got married recently. We took our kids. So did everyone else who had them. In fact it was more of "please bring your children, and if you don't have any bring someone else's" kind of an affair. <br />
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And yes. I spent most of the day, along with The FH, running after them. It was hard work. Children are. I'm afraid that comes as part of the "having a family" package. It is hard work. But it was still good fun. We all had a cracking day. The kids especially. They loved it. And I am so glad that the experience wasn't taken away from them for fear of spoiling it for the grownups.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com72tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-55883733757931549222012-08-22T03:57:00.000-07:002012-08-22T12:52:13.871-07:00Lists (5)<h2>
The Olympic One.</h2>
(Things I LOVED and HATED about London2012)<br />
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I'm going all out on this one guys and doing an Olympic theme too.<br />
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Fuck it. <br />
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Yeah it's over and we had it shoved down our throats for like 7 years (actually, it was exactly seven years of throat shoving) but you know what I miss it and it was bloody good, so it deserves a blog, albeit a late one.<br />
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<strong>1 (Gold).</strong> I LOVED the opening ceremony. I loved that the rest of the world didn't get it. I loved that Danny Boyle flicked the V's at them and wrote a love story for us. I loved the theatre, the energy... The show. </div>
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I loved being Great. Great Fucking Britain. That's us right there, taking centre stage and doing it well. </div>
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<strong>2 (Silver).</strong> How well our female athletes did. <br />
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They totally stole the show.<br />
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To quote <span style="color: red;">@victoriapeckham</span> "isn't it amazing for young people to see women judged on what their bodies can do and not what their bodies look like" <br />
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And this isn't about women versus men. It is just about celebrating positive female influences. A little bit of hope shining out amongst the dreary, damp wag culture that is depressing our country's daughters.<br />
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<strong>3 (Bronze).</strong> Jessica Ennis. <br />
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Because she is a-maz-ing. <br />
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That last race, where she wasn't winning, the one she never wins, the one she didn't need to win. That last race where just wanted it. Where she just did it. <br />
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That's an Olympian. <br />
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<strong>4 (Fastest Loser).</strong> Exceeding expectations. </div>
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There's a quote on Facebook, that I'm sure you've all read. And if you haven't read it just click on that tosser friends Time line, the one who likes pictures of a baby and a dog cuddling with the caption 'dogs are family too' they'll have posted it somewhere. It goes something.like "Seven years ago they said we wouldn't get it, but we did. Four years ago they said..." Blah blah you get the idea. Anyway it's a bit cheesy and naff, but it's true. We all thought it was going to be shit, and there was a chance we could fuck up royally, especially with "flag-gate" at the first football match. But it wasn't.. It was really good. We did it. We finally exceeded expectations. Great Britain? Amazing Britain. That's us</div>
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<strong>5 (Just Loser)</strong> And finally last on the love list is the Unity! <br />
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I just love it when it all comes together; it didn't matter if you were posh, a chav or from Wales - we were rooting for you! </div>
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Even that tosser from the North East who said he's been on the lash for 2 years then trained for 7 months (not exactly what Seb Coe meant when he said "inspiring the future generations"), but it didn't matter, because if you were Team GB we cheered. </div>
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But thank god for those posh people eh? We are pretty good at Hoorah Henry sports aren't we?</div>
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<strong>1 (Gold).</strong> How shit TV is now it's over.</div>
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I mean seriously, is this it for four years? Seriously? Even X factor isn't helping. In fact it's making it worse. <br />
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Alright so it's a bit of a cop out giving the number 1 spot on the hate list to it being over. But it's not that it's ended it's the gap it has left behind, a gap that is not going to be easily filled with <em>Keeping Up With the Kardashians</em>.</div>
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<strong>2 (Silver)</strong> Gary Linekar. </div>
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<strong>3. (Bronze)</strong> Miserable China.</div>
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<strong>4 (Fastest Loser).</strong> The dark side of success. </div>
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But among our Golds <em>The Daily Express</em> did still make room for Bronze medallists on their front page.. Only because they managed to print a picture of the Dutch Dressage Team instead of Team GB's Dressage Gold Medallists. <br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-72585951424153261832012-08-08T04:12:00.001-07:002012-08-08T05:57:34.782-07:00"Getting 'em out" - Breastfeeding, my boobs and my babies.<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">You don't have to go far to catch sight of a woman feeding a baby with a bottle do you? I mean they're everywhere right? At the park, in cafes, in playgroups, sat outside shops, on park benches, travelling on public transport, waiting in waiting rooms... My God the list is exhausting!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">But a breast-feeding mum, that can be quite rare. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Oh she probably is there somewhere, like a kingfisher lost in the colours of a riverbank, you just didn't see her. Because contrary to popular belief, a breast feeding mum isn't "getting them out here, there and everywhere", she's usually quietly sat in the corner, her top slightly ruched, with a baby wrapped around her belly as if it were sleeping. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">But when I do see her, catch a glimpse of a feeding position or realise later, she was ACTUALLY breast-feeding her baby something I hadn't noticed straight away, I always feel the need to go over and hug her, congratulate her, suffocate her in admiration. But I stop myself. She doesn't need that. Because the likelihood is, to have got to this point, she already knows how amazing she is. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Because unfortunately for most, breast-feeding isn't easy, it's bloody hard work; there's a lot of tears, angst, self doubt and challenges to overcome. Then if the skill (which it most definitely is) is mastered, having the confidence to do it in front of people isn't as simple as just "getting them out". </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Breastfeeding in public requires a thick skin, a subtle amount of confidence, a grounded outlook and a positive attitude. Some people are fortunate to have these already. Others have to find them, muster them or grow them. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I was one of these women.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">For me the act of breastfeeding was relatively easy. OK I'll take those rose tinted glasses off... Yes with my first there were some challenges. But compared to other peoples' hardships, mine were quite easily overcome. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">But I think i know why</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Firstly, I did have an emergency c-section with my first, this meant I was in hospital for three nights after his birth. During my stay the breastfeeding support, advice and warmth I received from the midwives was first class. And if, like other new mums, I had discharged myself at the first opportunity, it may have been a different story. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Secondly breastfeeding wasn't really a choice for me, in my head it's just how you feed your baby. I'm pretty sure I breast fed my dolls. You know, after I'd given birth to them out of my jumper. But that's because I watched my Mum feeding my brother till he was two years old. Because she breast feed me whilst she breast fed my 18 month older sister, because she's probably still remembered by some, thirty years on, as "THAT women who breast fed in the cricket club" But for me, us, our family, it was the norm. So of course I was going to breast feed my own.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">And, although now,as I type one handed whilst breast feeding my third son, it's difficult to remember the struggles, but there were some. In fact sometimes it was a two person job, (three if my mum was visiting) as me and The FH tried to get O to latch on to an over inflated, veiny, water-melon-shaped-boob that would project milk spray if the wind blew the wrong way. And yes, there were tears and tantrums as we desperately tried to remember the exact position of infamous "rugby-ball" that had "SAVED THE DAY" on ward 17. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I was really self-conscious. Worried (I have No idea why) about what others thought. <strike>Scared</strike> Petrified about receiving negative comments (which unfortunately some women do). Convinced the world wanted to watch me feed my baby - which I have now realised it doesn't, but it should - I'm bloody good at it. But the reality is most people couldn't care less, they have their own lives to get on with, and really just aren't that interested in seeing my boobs; be it going topless on a beach in the Caribbean or feeding my child in the middle of a shopping centre, 99% of the population just aren't that interested.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">But it took having three children to really understand this, to stop caring and to be really comfortable breast feeding in public, I'm not sure what happened to make me this self-concious, but somewhere between being the girl who breast fed her dolls and becoming the young women who sunbathed topless on holiday, I let some people's idiotic views influence me. Which is a shame. A real shame. I wish I felt like I did now when I had my first, but it was a learning curve and I'm just glad I got there in the end. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I was inspired to write this post because of World Breastfeeding Week, I know it was last week, but what's new?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I don't like to preach, or tell people they should do this, that or the other, purely because I have been on the receiving end of that... and it's exceptionally annoying</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">But I don't mind being smug, so here goes... One thing I am sure of, the decision to breastfeed my children is one of the best decisions I have ever made. So I couldn't let the week pass without commemorating it somehow.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">So if you do happen to come across a women breast-feeding her child in public, you just need to do one thing: smile! Whatever you think, however you were fed, however you feed, just smile at her... Because I can assure you of one thing, she's not doing it to get attention, that baby is just bloody hungry!</span><br />
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Because it's not advice that you want to hear, just experiences, as sometimes someone else is going through the same as you.<br /><br />But for the first time, my support network can't help me. Together we are stumped. <br /><br />So I am asking you, followers, Internet friends, twitterers and fellow parents to read, share and offer any advice you have.<br /><br />In February my middle child (who is about to turn 3) had his tonsils and adenoids removed and grommets put it. This is a really heavy op for a 2 and a half year old to have. I only recently understood how heavy when different specialists told me this op is something surgeons will hold off undertaking for as long as possible. <br /><br />In our case, the specialist examined Jonty and then booked him in for the earliest operating appointment he could get; things must have been bad.<br /><br />Only looking back I realise that they were. <br /><br />He had suffered from chronic nose infections since he was born, he snored as loud as a grown man, suffered from sleep apnoea and was constantly tired and irritable, plagued by nose and ear infections.<br /><br />The illness was bearable, but it was the way it was affecting his development and personality that broke our hearts.<br /><br />Although we had flagged this up with Doctors since he was born and been told "babies are mucus-y", it was only when I had shared my concerns about his speech and hearing that they referred us to a specialist. The hearing test showed he wasn't localising any of the lower volumes, we couldn't get a percentage of his hearing loss as he completely flipped when they tried to put headphones on him, but the department's reactions showed us this was not good.<br /><br />Afterwards, the surgeon who operated on him said his tonsils and adenoids were enormous, quite possibly the biggest he had seen. <br /><br />Pre-operation his speech had lacked progression, he was still only using the handful of words he had formed a year earlier and the rest of his noises were undecipherable baby language. He had found ways to communicate, but he had never said "Mama", didn't attempt to craete a word for his brother and was frustrated that the world couldn't undertsand him. So he bagan to shut us out.<br /><br />We had slowly watched him turn from a smiling bubbly baby to a shy, introverted toddler. He would remove himself from social situations, isolate himself at play groups, and was reluctant to interact with his grandparents or aunites and uncles.If visitors came to the house, including our family, he would take himself off upstairs. Shutting the door.<br /><br />Post - operation we have slowly seen him return. A new day brings new words. He is confident, sometimes to the point of cockiness, and at my brother's wedding a few weeks back he was the life and soul of the party. He couldn't get enough of socialising.<br /><br />I can't tell you how good this has been. The interaction, the moments, hearing him say my name, reading a book together, laughing and giggling over words, sounds; enjoying together the world around him.<br /><br />Things are good; everything is falling into place.<br /><br />Apart from one thing...<br /><br />In December (2 months before Jonty's op) I gave birth to my third son Leo. He is a wonderful baby. He rarely cries, pretty much slept for the first 3 months and is always smiling.<br /><br />However,now he is 7 and half months and become quite vocal, The usual stuff: teething noises, babbling, exploring sounds and he does have quite a loud cry if something startles him. <br /><br />Last month Jonty started whimpering when Leo cried. And if we were somewhere where I couldn't comfort Leo or Jonty, like pushing them in a buggy on the school run, or driving in a car, this whimpering would turn to a full-scale tantrum where Jonty became hysterical, inconsolable and distressed. <br /><br />This has now escalated so when Leo makes any noise at all, a babble, laugh or a yawn, Jonty screams, wails or shouts. <br /><br />I was hoping when the holidays came, with my partner being off and two of us on hand, this would be ok, but things are getting worse. <br /><br />And it's wearing us all down. If you have any advice, please share it with me. He has come so far and is doing so well it's heart breaking to see him so traumatised by his own brother's voice.<br /><br />So here's some more info:<br />
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And when I told her she said "Now that is one job I couldn't do."<br />
"Really?" I asked bewildered, "I 'm just dealing with the younger versions of what you're dealing with."<br />
"Oh but it's different isn't it?" she said<br />
"Not that different" I replied<br />
"Yes it is" she said sternly, and as much as I wanted to go on to rant about how schools were merely microcosms of society, things between us had become awkward, so I left it there.<br />
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"What? You'd rather work here?" I would think. My skin itching as I eyed the sterile and soulless environment.<br />
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It was our first family wedding, by family I mean the ones who lived in the same house as me for quite a long time. You know, THE family! Out of the three of us, my little brother was always going to be the first to get married, that much I always knew. Just like he was always going to be the high flyer - somethings are just obvious. But, who he married and how amazing the day was, completely blew me away. <br />
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First of all you need to know the background... A couple of years ago him and his girlfriend went to work on the other side of the world, whilst they were there he popped the question, she said yes and they set the date. They planned to work in Oz for a couple of years, then do some travelling, then come home and get hitched. <br />
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So when most Brides-to-be are nil-by-mouth and stressing about whether the bridesmaid dresses are going to clash with the centrepieces, these two were doing this...<br />
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But they did come home eventually. And when they did it all came together.<br />
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As one of the bridesmaids I had taken it upon myself to send them lots of e mails with ideas on centrepieces, decorations etc. You know, being one of those "helpful" future sister-in-laws. I'm pleased to say they didn't do any of them, because what they did do was just perfect...<br />
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<strong>How to have an amazing but unpretentious wedding by Pip and Claire.</strong><br />
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<li>a bride who is as far removed from a bridezilla as possible</li>
<li>a laid back groom</li>
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<li>to let the bridesmaids and grooms choose their own suits/dresses</li>
<li>to make your invitations whilst travelling and send them postcard-esque from the other side of the world</li>
<li>to buy your centrepieces from M&S the day before</li>
<li>to send a few e mails from a camper van in Australia to the guests/venue/caterers</li>
<li>to remove the "night do" invites - if guests are coming they are coming all day!</li>
<li>to encourage people to bring their children </li>
<li>to write name places on luggage tags</li>
<li>to write the seating plan on a chalk board that happened to be lying around at the venue.</li>
<li>to donate the money you would have spent on wedding favours to a charity</li>
<li>to have your Dad turn up with a cake he had iced himself because it "was better than nothing"</li>
<li>to ask some of your friends,who are nifty with a camera, to take the pics</li>
<li>to not have a top table, just sit in amongst your guests</li>
<li>to most definitely NOT have a theme</li>
<li>to ensure you have a 3 year old page boy to blow out all the tea lights you had lit in church</li>
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Basically throw all of the above into a big white tent, with some great food and a stunning location and it's pretty much gonna be a blast! Mix in plenty of booze, stir it up, play some classic "tunes" and sit back and enjoy!<br />
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As weddings go, Mr and Mrs P you totally nailed it! <br />
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I've got some pictures of the day, not many though, because I was too busy having a fabulous time whilst keeping half an eye on the boys. But I've got what really counts, great memories, of a great day...<br />
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But just in case one day my memory fails me, this is what I hope to never forget...<br />
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... How honoured I felt watching Claire get ready to marry my brother, her beaming smile, the wonder in her eyes as she effortlessly put together the pieces to create this...<br />
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...Walking down the aisle, holding my eldest child's hand, a blur of faces in the pews and suddenly catching sight of Pip at the end, no longer a boy... a handsome, successful man. A husband. <br />
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...Meeting new people, welcoming old friends, knowing they have great people around them.<br />
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...Catching up with family, realising that my Dad's cousin Sheila is still one of the coolest people we know and she can rock a pair of skinny jeans with the best of them!<br />
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...Waking the next morning at 4.30 am and being gutted it was over.</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-32676434547418313842012-07-06T14:51:00.001-07:002012-07-06T16:06:51.536-07:00Once upon a time...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Once upon time I lived in France (and never spoke French); my boss was a Lady (as in the title); cleaned the bogs of the rich and famous (well someone off Corrie and the drummer from Status Quo); necked a toffee vodka shot daily (warmed you up); skied whenever I wanted (not THAT much) and woke up to this… </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">And I got to share it all with my best mate!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">The chalet we worked in was beautiful! And an absolute bitch to clean. It slept twelve, not including the two bedraggled and inebriated chalet girls who slept in the cloak room. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Thankfully we had been best friends since we were 11 and knew each other very well, as that small space tested us, our friendship and our sanity!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">But that tiny room was for just for sleeping. We were in Meribel baby! The rest of the time we partied… And skied… Of course! Oh and cleaned and cooked – we did that A LOT!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">But what I remember most was the freedom… The freedom of the cold, thin air against your face as the skyline raced past as a blurry snow-topped mountain. The freedom of space, space that can only be found when the world around you is trapped under snow. Freedom from deadlines, bills and paper. Freedom from magazines, Television and fashion. Freedom gained by being frozen in a time, a place and a moment. We were frozen from when we arrived and the first snow fell till it melted away and we left. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Once upon a time I was a chalet girl… I watched decent live music every night of the week, I had great skin that only a high altitude can give, spent my free time on a pair of skies, ate the rarest steak known to a Briton, danced in ski boots, snogged a stranger in salopettes, laughed hysterically in a cable car, found friends in strange places, came home with the bread van, went to a bin bag ball and watched the world from a mountain top!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"> Once upon a time that Chalet Girl was me!</span></div>
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<em>Check out the brains behind the badge for "Once upon a time..." at </em><a href="http://older-mum.blogspot.co.uk/p/once-upon-time.html"><em>Older Mum in a Muddle</em>.</a><br />
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<a href="http://older-mum.blogspot.com/" title="Once Upon A Time"><img alt="Once Upon A Time" height="170" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7036/6775563952_fdaee4eeff_m.jpg" width="150" /></a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-58036950665793913482012-06-23T08:14:00.001-07:002012-06-23T10:38:03.981-07:00The Torch!The Olympics are in London this year. Yes really they are - did you not know? How could you have missed that? <br />
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Of course you know. EVERYBODY knows. You can't even pop out for a loaf of bread without bumping into Team GB wrist strap, or a Team GB mug, or a Team GB T shirt... or a Team GB rubber duck. RUBBER DUCK? Really? Yes. Really.<br />
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Yes, every one knows about the Olympics. Especially my 4yo. He knows EVERYTHING!<br />
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He knows about all the races, running AND jumping ones, and he knows that they are in London where the Queen lives (The Queen who just had a party). He knows all about Wenlock and Mandeville, in fact Wenlock came for a sleepover. He knows all about The Union Jack AND he knows about The Torch! Oh yes he knows all about The Torch.<br />
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Yes that Torch. The one that was coming to our sleepy little town and lighting it up. Yes his school were very excited about the torch. They've been watching videos, mapping its progress, making paper mache torches, doing a torch collage, drawing in it charcoal, making a display... they had done it all. <br />
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They had a torch calendar to count down the days and they were even putting on a family Olympic breakfast on Torch Day<br />
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So there was no way we could not go to watch the procession. No way. All weekend O was rabbiting on about it and then on the morning of Torch Day the first thing he said when he woke up was: "I'm so excited to see the torch"<br />
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But it was OK because I had prepared for it. It didn't matter that we had to be on the main road at 7.50 am when on most school mornings it's an achievement to get there at 8.50am. Or that The FH would be leaving even earlier because of possible road closures. No that didn't matter because I could do this. I washed my hair the night before. I had everyones' outfits ready and I would just get up an hour earlier. Simple!<br />
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Every thing was going so well. The predicted down pour was in fact bright blue skies and brilliant sunshine, my hair was done, the boys were dressed... I had even found a black shirt dress in my wardrobe that I hadn't worn since having kids, which was once a size "too small" and now fit with "room to spare".We did have a moment when we thought there may be a "missing shoe" disaster, but alas, it was under the couch. I'd even had time to put on make up - lipstick too, which I never wear, but it's a once-in-a-life-time event huh?<br />
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I quickly rang my sister and mum to see if they were going and planned to meet them there. It was on these phone calls I discovered that The Torch was not actually arriving at the church till 8.05. But I poo-pooed this; I would aim for 7.50 regardless, just to be safe. <br />
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But it only takes one thing doesn't it<br />
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Just one.<br />
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Turns out our "one thing" was poo! Runny poo running out the side of middle child's nappy and into his shorts and shoes. Runny poo up his back and on his T shirt. Runny poo I had to clean whilst he squirmed and wriggled off the mat and around the living room. Runny poo that trailed behind him. Runny poo that took two thirds of a packet of wipes to clean. Runny poo that took so long to clean the baby screamed and screamed. Runny poo that meant a new out fit, new shoes and a new changing mat were needed. Runny poo that darling little O tried his hardest to help me clean up so he wouldn't miss the torch...<br />
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Runny fucking poo!<br />
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But it was OK. Because the whole time I was thinking "It's OK, It's not expected till 5 past"<br />
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So at just before eight, we left the house, the two little ones strapped in the double buggy. Both red faced with hot tears and Little O frantically running ahead. 30 metres down the road I spotted my friend casually strolling down and I this filled me with hope -"Great we must be on time". It failed to register with me that said friend is notoriously late. Then...When the main road was in sight... And the crowds and flags could be seen in force... Just at that moment when the stress started to trickle away... I saw them all fall backwards, like rats deserting a ship and my heart dropped out of my size-14-shirt-dress and smashed on the floor!<br />
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My friend stopped, turned, caught sight of me and smiled "I think we've missed it". I looked at O. His face crumpled. He tried not to cry. But he did. Next thing I was hugging him, apologising into his ear as he wiped snot, tears and anger into my black shirt dress. <br />
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We pretty much saw every one we knew on that road, as I stood hugging him feeling like the worst parent on the planet, looking surprisingly over-dressed and made up for that time in the morning. And everyone who stopped to see what the matter with sobbing O was looked at me accusingly when I explained we had missed it. I read their thoughts :"I see you had time to put lipstick on though"<br />
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We headed up to the school, for the celebratory breakfast but the deflated Samsung advertising batons had more enthusiasm than us. <br />
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When we got there, the rats were fleeing again; the school's gas was off and there was no bacon butties! We didn't bother going in. We just waited for the gates to open. The boys ran about, O was pretty much over it, where as me... I just stood there, letting the guilt nibble away.<br />
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I couldn't go on FB that day. It was full of updates an pictures of how fabulous it had been. It was like missing Christmas all over again!<br />
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I texted the FH. You know, being a PE teacher and all, I thought he would have something to say about it. But he didn't. Instead he fixed it. And this is why I love him. <br />
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A lad he teaches had been a torch bearer the previous day and he would bring his torch into school so Oscar could go and see it and get his picture taken with it. Our hero. <br />
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My bacon (or should I say beacon) was saved...<br />
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And we all stood there, admiring O and the torch. Us, the torch bearer and half the staff. The FH takes this moment to ask him "Is it good to hold the torch?" <br />
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Do you know what he said... <br />
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"Yeah. But it's just like the one like the one that came into my school!"<br />
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Anyway we got our first photograph of the five us - sorry six, let's not forget the fucking torch!<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-42110904054594415162012-05-11T03:22:00.001-07:002012-05-11T03:27:33.700-07:00Doing our bit!<div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Dear Recycling bags, <br />
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You know I think the world of you. Your predecessor was more than a bit crap. It blew away every week and rarely managed to keep a plastic bottle or cardboard tube contained. But then you arrived. Easy to use, easy to tie in a knot to keep all the contents enclosed (even on the windiest of days), and if you blew off that was fine too. The collectors would pick you up, I didn't have to helplessly try to retrieve you from a neighbour's garden or from under a car. Recycling bags, you make recycling a joy, not a chore.<br />
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I know every borough has its own methods of tackling recycling, but I have to say I like the way Redcar and Cleveland do it! I like the fact they have provided you, recycling bags.<br />
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We (by which I mean our council) have always seemed to be at the forefront of recycling initiatives. I base this knowledge purely on the fact that when visiting friends/relatives around the country we could say things like !"What you don't recycle plastics yet?" and when they proudly showed us their newly council delivered recycling utensil we could say "yeah we've had one of those for ages". To put it bluntly, we were smug. Smug recylcists. <br />
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But no other boroughs I visited had quite managed to cotton on to how brilliant the see through roll of recycling bags were. And you are brilliant aren't you? <br />
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It was so easy. We religiously used you fortnightly. No drama. And just when we were running out, there you were - a new role - delivered by the friendly recycling men. <br />
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But then they stopped that. <br />
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It was too high risk. It appeared there was a household somewhere, probably, who wasn't recycling and just had rolls of you popping up every month and they would just keep putting you in a forgotten cupboard somewhere. <br />
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So we had to ring a number when we needed you. And the kind recycling men would drop you off. But they stopped that too, as it seemed some thrifty-but-naughty people were using you as bin bags to try and save a few quid.<br />
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So then we had to go to the Library to get you. But that was still a bit easy for the sneaky-but-thrifty people to do. <br />
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So they gave the library a spreadsheet and we had to tell them our address every time we got you. <br />
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And, it seemed, finally, everything was going ok...<br />
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But then the Tories came into power and they said <strong>"MAKE THEM PAY!"</strong><br />
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So they started charging £2 a roll and The FH said "no more" And our lovely love affair was over. <br />
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So I tried to replace you. I tried using Charity bags, like many others, because we have SO many of them I just wanted to use them. But quite rightly, they wouldn't take the charity bags. I mean it wasn't fair on that poor charity worker who thought his look was in one morning and bounded to the depot with a full van only to discover every single was full of milk cartons and toilet roll inners. <br />
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Then I tried black bin bags. But they wouldn't take those either. Because they have to be able to see your contents. Heaven forbid a rogue tin can or a newspaper gets inside and the pedantic recycling man unknowingly takes it away with the plastics!<br />
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So I went behind The FH's back and I went to library and I bought you. But it wasn't that flimsy little roll for £2 - it was a MEGA roll! Two years worth to be exact! The FH couldn't complain about that. You were a bargain!<br />
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So to all the people who are no using you because those pesky Tories started charging... It's not that bad really, £2 every 2 years to help save the planet - I mean you pay a lot more that to have your regular rubbish shipped off to a landfill to sit and barely decompose for, like... FOREVER! <br />
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And finally, to end on a high I just wanted to let you know recycling bags, you have made difference. When I was at school a friend's dad would collect tin cans and take them hom to crush and send off to be recycled. We thought he was wierdo. He was just ahead of his time. Before I left teaching I saw some school kids set up and run the school's recycling system as they were astonished the school didn't have one in place when they were all recycling at home. <br />
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I think you've pretty single-handedly much changed the outlook of the youth. Ok the green box and the blue bag have played their part, but we know who's the brains of the operation.<br />
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Much Love<br />
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Your number 1 fan. <br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-82616658603452308262012-05-08T13:38:00.001-07:002012-05-08T22:55:06.258-07:00Today I baked... That'll show him.<div>
We were in Tesco. On a Saturday. Living the dream. <br />
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Two aisles from the end he heel turns, with the trolley, and declares "we're done". <br />
"What about the last two? I ask, even though I know exactly what he's playing at. <br />
"There's only biscuits and wine down there." he shrugs<br />
"They are only my two favourite things" I reply. And when he continued in the wrong direction I added:"And you've been jumping on the sweet tooth band-wagon recently. " he stalled "only yesterday you were hunting for a biscuit crumb to have with your tea".<br />
He turned. I had him. And then he twitched and said: "I know Fran. But with all this spare time you've got I've been expecting you to bake"<br />
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He smiled.<br />
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I smiled.<br />
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And time stood still.<br />
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There we were, in front of the Bernard Matthew's Turkey Burgers, having a smile off.<br />
Oh I knew he was joking. But it was one of those clever jokes. He was dangling that fishing line just above my smiling lips. <br />
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"I'll show him." I thought. "Just you wait sunshine. I'm going to bake like no ones baked before. Bake till his sons know the difference between a torte and a tart... Till those burly boys can make a souffle and decorate cupcakes with iced roses..I'm gonna bake till I take get a rosette for best in show... Till Kirsty Allsop is ringing me up for advice on how to make the perfect scone... Till... "<br />
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Well that was the plan. <br />
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Until today when me and big child made these.<br />
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But the Victoria Sponge was nice (renamed "strawberry cake" by Little O as that's a much better name for it, obvs).<br />
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But, alas, I'm bored of baking now.<br />
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It's a bit of a faff on. </div>
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And I passed on to big child all my "licking the bowl" techniques, to ensure you get every last scrap of mixture. So I felt my work here was done.<br />
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Not to mention how bloody expensive it is! I mean you can pick up a 4 pack of basic biscuits for a quid. <br />
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So glad I took his credit card to the shop to buy the flour which had been sifted by angels and the gold flecked cooking chocolate. </div>
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That'll show him.<br />
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</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-78991478884007093032012-05-04T23:00:00.001-07:002012-05-09T01:41:09.787-07:00If my mum had been a mummy blogger<br />
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These would have been in the archives:<br />
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<ul>
<li><strong>Well that shut her up</strong></li>
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(<em>Middle child has a tantrum about fried egg, till she gets one flung in her face)</em><br />
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<li><strong>The hour long stick dance</strong></li>
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(<em>Middle child decides she wants to perform a dance with a stick to the whole campsite at the annual campsite meal. It lasts nearly an hour. Lots of politely smiling French people. Cringing parents)</em><br />
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<li><strong>Heil Hitler</strong></li>
</ul>
<em>(I told my son (4) son to go to bed. He made a Nazi Salute and shouted "Heil Hitler". I bollocked him and then realised we've probably been watching too much 'Allo 'Allo)</em><br />
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<li><strong>How not to pack a caravan</strong></li>
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<em> (We set off to France in new Caravan. End up on the side of a Motorway, Caravan in a thousand pieces. Badly packed apparently.)</em><br />
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<li><strong>There's a rat in the kitchen</strong></li>
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(<em>Well in the bedroom actually. But, A RAT in our house!. Big drama!)</em>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-49797181745339921932012-05-04T08:05:00.001-07:002012-05-04T08:10:10.776-07:00Will my kids like my blog?Ok, so here's the usual blurb... I don't write this blog for anyone else, I write it for myself... blah blah blah... you know the drill. <br />
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However... do you think my kids will like it?<br />
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Because if that was me, all grown up and 18 and THE blog still existed, I'd probably be like, "Why didn't you do on like <a href="http://akamuma.blogspot.co.uk/">AKA MUMA</a>? That's really cool.".<br />
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And when they ask me questions about their childhood will they get sick of me saying "I dunno, check the blog" - when really it's just about all the ridiculous things I did.<br />
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And they're boys, so they might be all "it's a bit WORDY isn't it? Didn't you ever think of uploading any pictures or those - video things you had back then?"<br />
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Maybe I just won't ever show them. <br />
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Maybe the Tories will have abolished Blogging, Twitter and all things fun by then.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3231605500875490112.post-7206021885799940532012-05-03T02:09:00.000-07:002012-05-04T07:52:22.303-07:00If you believe...If you believe Twitter, some Mums get up and float around a tidy house where their children get themselves ready for school whilst they make homemade porridge for breakfast. Then they spend the morning looking in recipe books for inspiration on what to do with their homegrown veg for lunch. <br />
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If you believe Facebook, people you went to school with, who couldn't tie their own shoelaces, have the most AMAZING lives and are now totally, drop dead GORGEOUS.<br />
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I think there's a little bit of BS going on here aand there. That is all.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14736778079371937674noreply@blogger.com2